Chapter 11 : Imitation – tenth feature of the gratitude we owe the Mother of God
Continuing our translation of the 1845 reprint of Fr François Poiré’s Triple Crown of the Mother of God (1643 French edition).
§ 9. On her wondrous kind-heartedness and how it should be imitated by everyone
1 According to the Angelic Doctor[1], this virtue is a gentleness of spirit coming from a certain goodness of heart which has a horror of anything that could cause distress to another. This is the reason why it is closely allied to charity and why it is ranked amongst the principal virtues. St Basil[2] esteemed it so highly as to name it the greatest of all in view of it being placed amongst the first of the Beatitudes[3]; this consideration alone should suffice to convince us that the MOTHER OF GOD could not fail to possess it to a most excellent degree. If she has been found to be so perfect in charity as we have seen previously, does it not follow that she should also possess in its fullness the virtue of kind-heartedness which always accompanies it, as a necessary emanation of her gentleness? If it is a royal virtue, as we learn in St Ambrose[4], how could it be appropriate or fitting for the Princess of the universe not to possess it to perfection? If, as St John Chrysostom says[5], it is one of the foremost attributes of a good nature, how could it be lacking in her whose nature was so entirely noble, as we saw in Part I?[6] We should also recall the eloquent words of St Ambrose who depicted the Holy Virgin’s gentleness in vivid language as the most pleasing feature of her beautiful and richly endowed nature. If this virtue is almost inseparable from the maternal instinct, then to whom should it more fittingly belong than to the Mother of love and the Mother of all the children of the Saviour? If this same Saviour, who was the very embodiment of kind-heartedness, commended this particular virtue as the high point of His teaching, how would it be possible for the glorious Virgin who was the soul and spirit of His divine school not to partake of it, or for this great Teacher not to have carefully infused her with it? It is accordingly with very good reason that the Holy Church[7], after having called her Virgo singularis, immediately follows this with Inter omnes mitis, attesting that this beautiful title befits her in an excellent way above all others.
Footnotes
[1] II-II, 157.
[2] In Psal. 33.
[3] The Douay-Rheims (1582) translation of Beati mites in Matt. v. 4 is Blessed are the meek. The first sense of meek given in the OED comes from the period 1175-1616: “Gentle, courteous, kind,” which it describes as now obsolete. In later use, the word meek acquired a disparaging sense of “cowed, timid, biddable.” I have opted to translate the French equivalents (débonnaire / doux) as kind-hearted / gentle.
[4] Lib. II Offic., c. 7.
[5] Homil. 23 ad populum Antiochenum.
[6] Cap. 5, § 4.
[7] From the liturgical hymn Ave Maris Stella, attributed to St Bernard : Virgo singularis / Inter omnes mitis: Virgin all excelling / Most gentle of the gentle.
2 If you want me to highlight the most remarkable properties of this virtue as I did with the others , then I will say that it was most heartfelt, most obliging and most amiable[1].
Footnotes
[1] In the now historic sense of worthy of being loved, lovable; lovely.
The Virgin’s kind-heartedness was most heartfelt
3 I use the words most heartfelt because you would be gravely mistaken to imagine that the Holy Virgin paid mere lip service to this virtue or simply made use of flowery language, offering little services and paying compliments – such as is the way of people at court, for instance. She was far too sincere to indulge herself in these affectations or studied manners and she had nothing to do with putting on false appearances. Her gentleness came from the bottom of her heart which was so sensitive that she found it impossible to hear of someone’s affliction without being immediately moved. The miseries suffered by others became in a sense her own and she regarded no one as a stranger to her. Indeed she could say with St Paul[1] and more truthfully than St Paul : Who is weak, and I am not weak? Who is scandalized, and I am not on fire? She could say with Job[2], and more truthfully than Job, that from my infancy mercy grew up with me: and it came out with me from my mother’s womb. She could say to God with David[3], and with more reason : O Lord, remember Mary, and all her meekness. If ever there were a heart tender, compassionate and gentle, it was that of the Mother of Love.
Footnotes
[1] 2 Cor. xi. 29.
[2] Job xxxi. 18.
[3] Ps. CXXXI. 1.
The Virgin’s kind-heartedness was most obliging
4 This virtue in the holy Virgin was not only heartfelt but also most obliging. Her gentleness was not only based upon feeling but also showed itself in results. No sooner had it taken possession of her heart than it began to show itself in her eyes, her tongue, her hands, her feet and through all the faculties of her soul and all the parts of her body. The Virgin cherished her beloved solitude more than can be imagined, but ask St Ambrose[1] if that prevented her from leaving it when she was drawn outside by someone in need. He will explain to you that:
There was none more quick than she was to help the needy, to visit the sick, to comfort the afflicted and to take upon herself, if such a thing were possible, all the burdens of those in distress.
Were there times when she did not have the necessary things to help those in need? Well then she would console them with her words and they derived a hundred times more satisfaction from what she said than from any help given by others. Was she unable to do either of these things? In such cases, nothing could prevent her charitable prayers which never failed to be followed by an outcome favourable to those for whom the prayers were offered.
Footnotes
[1] Lib. II de Virg.
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SUB tuum præsidium confugimus, Sancta Dei Genitrix. Nostras deprecationes ne despicias in necessitatibus, sed a periculis cunctis libera nos semper, Virgo gloriosa et benedicta. Amen.
The Virgin of Tenderness. >12th century.
Totus tuus ego sum
Et omnia mea tua sunt;
Tecum semper tutus sum:
Ad Jesum per Mariam.
He that hearkeneth to me, shall not be confounded: and they that work by me, shall not sin. They that explain me shall have life everlasting. Ecclesiasticus (Sirach) xxiv. 30-31.

