Chapter 4 : Love – a third feature of the gratitude we owe the Mother of God
Continuing our translation of the 1845 reprint of Fr François Poiré’s Triple Crown of the Mother of God (1643 French edition).
§ 5. The fifth sign of love: Having a tender and fervent love for her dear Son
6 If you were to think that here we can find all the reasons for loving Jesus, you would be greatly mistaken. I have said nothing yet about that love He bears for us, even though this is the most powerful way He has of drawing the hearts and minds of the children of Adam unto Himself. Here is what St Bernard says[1]:
It is true that there are a million reasons obliging me to love Thee, oh most gentle and kind-hearted Jesus! But all things considered, there is nothing which rendereth Thee more lovable to my heart, nor winneth over my affections more effectively, than the chalice from which Thou didst will to drink for love of me, and the work of my redemption that Thou accomplished with such courage. Just as this is the high point and masterwork of Thy love, so too there is nothing which hath such a gentle power over my own; indeed nothing holdeth it more tightly and engageth with it more lastingly. It is true that in all the other things which Thou hast done for us, Thou dost urge men to give themselves to Thee – but here the force of compulsion is so complete that they would have to abandon the very idea of love if they did not yield before such powerful ideas as Thy heart pierced with a lance, Thy flesh torn by scourging, Thy whole body and spirit racked with pain.
Footnotes
[1] Serm. 20 in Cant.
7 There is enough in this thought to awaken the affections even of those souls paralysed by the greatest imaginable lethargy. But can I make so bold as to say something which has a close bearing on our discussion : the mere consideration alone of the Mother of love should be enough to pierce our hearts and oblige them to love Jesus, our great and adorable Saviour? Yes, it would be enough for those who consider they are her children to know that Jesus is the Son of Mary and that by virtue of this quality alone He would deserve more love than could be offered by all the hearts in creation. It is beyond doubt that Mary’s esteem of the love souls have for Jesus is such that, if it helped, she would choose not to be loved herself; but what am I saying? This would be nothing much for her, so let us rather say that she would a thousand times prefer not to be rather than for Jesus not to be loved, or even for the love due to Him to be even slightly diminished. The very pinnacle of her ambition and crowning-point of her desires is to see Him cherished above all things and receive the esteem that He deserves. From this it is simple to see that of all the acts of thanksgiving we can make to the glorious Virgin, there is none comparable to this. For her, loving Jesus involves more than blessing her throughout our lives, performing service for her and working to make her honoured and loved by all the creatures in the world. This is what she explained one day to the Blessed St Bridget , when she said[1]:
My dear daughter, if thou wouldst perform an outstanding service for me, do thou love my Son for love of me : indeed, do thou love Him more for Himself, since He is the most beautiful of all the children of men, the most noble and distinguished, the most humble and meek, the most accomplished and the most worthy of being loved that thou canst possibly imagine.
Footnotes
[1] Revel., c. 1.
8 At this point, my dearest wish of all would be for this wondrous Mother, whose heart is so replete with love for Jesus, to serve as our Teacher and instruct us in the ways of loving Him; or at the very least that she might be pleased to send us one of those Blessed Spirits on fire with the same love in order to reveal this secret to us. But perhaps we are being a little presumptuous here and so instead of an Angel from Heaven it will be an Angelic man from earth who will come to give us the lesson and show us the way of loving Him who is infinitely more worthy of love than we know how to love. I am speaking of the Virgin’s devoted child, the pious Saint Bernard[1], who in my opinion has scaled greater heights than any other spirit compassed in a mortal body. Here are his words:
Learn from Jesus Himself, O Christian, the way thou art to love Him. Learn to love Him with tenderness, wisdom and strength. With tenderness, so that nothing can distract the senses from His love; with wisdom, so that vain appearances cannot deceive thee; with strength, so that no violent assaults can overcome thee. With tenderness, meaning with thy whole heart; with wisdom, meaning with thy whole soul; with strength, meaning with all thy powers and faculties. May charity inflame thy zeal, may knowledge and understanding provide it with nourishment, and may constancy render it unshakeable. May it be fervent, prudent and courageous.
Footnotes
[1] Serm. 20 in Cant.
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SUB tuum præsidium confugimus, Sancta Dei Genitrix. Nostras deprecationes ne despicias in necessitatibus, sed a periculis cunctis libera nos semper, Virgo gloriosa et benedicta. Amen.
The Virgin of Tenderness. >12th century.
Totus tuus ego sum
Et omnia mea tua sunt;
Tecum semper tutus sum:
Ad Jesum per Mariam.
He that hearkeneth to me, shall not be confounded: and they that work by me, shall not sin. They that explain me shall have life everlasting. Ecclesiasticus (Sirach) xxiv. 30-31.

