Chapter 4 : Love – a third feature of the gratitude we owe the Mother of God
Continuing our translation of the 1845 reprint of Fr François Poiré’s Triple Crown of the Mother of God (1643 French edition).
§ 5. The fifth sign of love: Having a tender and fervent love for her dear Son
Loving Jesus with wisdom
13 Love which is prudent and wise is known principally by two things, firstly, a great eagerness and a holy desire to know and to learn all that pertains to the life, the mysteries and the perfections of Jesus: and secondly, a real and heartfelt imitation of His excellent virtues. This same Jesus who understood better than anyone else the nature of this love, said one day to His Apostles[1] that eternal life, meaning the happiness that we can hope for in that life, consists in the knowledge we have of God and of his only begotten Son Jesus Christ whom He sent down to earth. The great St Paul regarded this study as so important that he wrote to the Corinthians[2] telling them he judged not himself to know anything among them, but Jesus Christ, and Him crucified ; and to the Philippians[3] that I count all things to be but loss for the excellent knowledge of Jesus Christ my Lord; for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but as dung, that I may gain Christ. In the letter he wrote to the Ephesians[4], we can picture him on his knees with his hands joined in prayer to God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, asking that they may be able to comprehend, with all the saints, what is the breadth, and length, and height, and depth: To know also the charity of Christ, which surpasseth all knowledge, that they may be filled unto all the fulness of God. It is indeed true that this knowledge so esteemed by St Paul and other Saints does not consist of speculative enlightenment but rather in affective and practical knowledge leading us to perfect imitation of Jesus. Right at the beginning of the Canticles[5], the chaste Spouse follows the promptings of the love which has taken possession of her and has found nothing better to ask of her Beloved than the kiss of His mouth. Soon, however, she realises that it is possible she is being too self-indulgent in seeking her own satisfaction. Accordingly, she changes her approach and tells Him that in return for these caresses that she receives He can do whatever seems good to Him. She asks, however, one thing absolutely of him – that He take effective measures to draw her after Him so that she can bring with her the young maidens who have been following her.
Footnotes
[1] Now this is eternal life: That they may know thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent. John xvii. 3.
[2] For I judged not myself to know anything among you, but Jesus Christ, and him crucified. 1 Cor. ii. 2.
[3] Phil. iii. 8.
[4] Eph. iii. 18-19.
[5] Let him kiss me with the kiss of his mouth: for thy breasts are better than wine, Smelling sweet of the best ointments. Thy name is as oil poured out: therefore young maidens have loved thee. Draw me: we will run after thee to the odour of thy ointments. Cant. i.1-3.
14 It is said that those who wish to fill a dovecote have only to start with one, well-scented bird and give her freedom to roam because others will readily be attracted by her odour and will follow her back to the dovecote. This is what the Eternal Father discovered when He wished to repopulate Heaven after the departure of the fallen Angels. He anointed His beloved Son Jesus with the unction of Divinity and made Him fragrant with all the virtues of Paradise. This made all the chaste and innocent doves follow Him and, being separated from the rapacious crows, they were to fill the places that sinful pride had emptied. In point of fact, if you think about the most powerful consideration throughout time in the minds of those desirous of pleasing God, you will find it has been the example set by Jesus, their Father and their Saviour, who says to them through the Prophet Jeremiah[1]: Thou shalt call me father and shalt not cease to walk after me. Nothing has been impossible for them since they carefully fixed their eyes on this and wisely weighed the words of St Paul[2] who told them the most certain sign of their predestination is the resemblance they have to the model of all the elect, who is none other than the same Jesus Christ. Be that as it may, have they sometimes found themselves tired and worn out on the path of virtue? If so then with St Paul[3] they will have cast their eyes on Jesus whom he calls the author and finisher of faith, who . . . endured the cross, despising the shame, and now sitteth on the right hand of the throne of God, and he invites them to think diligently upon him that endured such opposition. Have they ever thought of choosing a life of abstinence? They will find no more powerful motives than the hunger, the thirst and the sufferings endured by Jesus.
One day at Easter, the Abbot Pachomius had received the Abbot Palemon who had come on a visit. To share in the rejoicings of this great day, he had poured a little oil and salt on the herbs he had prepared but the pious Palemon began to shed tears and called out:“But what is this! Shall it be said that I shall satisfy my appetite in this way seeing before my eyes the Saviour of the world given gall and vinegar to drink?”
Have they bravely embraced humility and a contempt for themselves in all things? The unparalleled humility of the Saviour will have obliged them in a sense to do this.
Blessed Francis Borgia, true mirror of Christian humanity, had such a low view of himself that he could find no place which befitted his state, except at the feet of the traitor Judas. But as soon as he had set eyes on his Master and Saviour on Maundy Thursday, he felt so plunged in shame that he thought that hell alone would be a worthy retreat for him.
Do they feel they should patiently ensure the injuries and abuses suffered at the hands of others? Nothing will have served as a better example of this than when Jesus was despiséd and felt an insatiable desire to suffer insults and scorn.
St Ignatius, the founder of the Society of Jesus, found himself in Genoa at the beginning of his conversion when war had broken out between the French and the Spanish. He was taken prisoner by some Spanish soldiers, flogged, put in prisoner's rags and led before their Captain. He asked Ignatius several questions but without obtaining any replies except when he was asked if he was a spy, to which Ignatius answered that he certainly was not. In the end, he ordered him to be taken away and sharply rebuked his soldiers for having brought before him someone who he said, was disturbed in his mind. They were so enraged by this that they started to shout at him and beat him with their fists and rods, eventually leaving him for dead. In the midst of this terrible treatment, Ignatius consoled himself by considering the honour that God had paid him in allowing him to resemble His beloved Son who had been led shamefully before Herod and abused before being dismissed as a fool and led back as a criminal by this cruel tyrant’s soldiers.
Footnotes
[1] Jerem. iii. 19.
[2] For whom he foreknew, he also predestinated to be made conformable to the image of his Son; that he might be the firstborn amongst many brethren. And whom he predestinated, them he also called. And whom he called, them he also justified. And whom he justified, them he also glorified. Rom. viii. 29-30.
[3] Hebr. xii. 2-3.
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SUB tuum præsidium confugimus, Sancta Dei Genitrix. Nostras deprecationes ne despicias in necessitatibus, sed a periculis cunctis libera nos semper, Virgo gloriosa et benedicta. Amen.
The Virgin of Tenderness. >12th century.
Totus tuus ego sum
Et omnia mea tua sunt;
Tecum semper tutus sum:
Ad Jesum per Mariam.
He that hearkeneth to me, shall not be confounded: and they that work by me, shall not sin. They that explain me shall have life everlasting. Ecclesiasticus (Sirach) xxiv. 30-31.

